Caregivers and Codependency in Colorado Springs, CO

There are many individuals in toxic situations who use the term codependency as a reason to stay in the negative environment. If the situation is damaging to both parties and yet both parties believe it is in their best interest to stay, the situation is likely codependent. Visiting Angels Colorado Springs Caregivers always puts our patients first, and can help identify a situation that may be codependent. Our caregivers provide the services that your loved one needs while also providing a positive care model for you and your family.

Codependency is often defined as “suffering caused by intense focus on another’s needs”. The key to identifying whether codependency may exist in the situation is to discover intent. A more comprehensive definition of codependency is provided by Co-Dependents Anonymous, Inc. provides one that states: “Codependency is a tendency to behave in ways that negatively impact one’s relationship and quality of life. This behavior may be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, compliance or control patterns.

When pertaining to home care, codependency can create a toxic living environment that is uncomfortable or abusive. Here are some things to watch out for, categorized by pattern

Denial Patterns

People with denial patterns may have trouble recognizing their own feelings and might believe themselves to be totally selfless.

Low Self-Esteem Patterns

Those who have low self-esteem patterns often struggle with decision making. They are often incapable of accepting any words of encouragement and place higher value on the needs of others than on their own.

Compliance Patterns

Compliance patterns are often seen when individuals will sacrifice their own integrity to gain approval of others.

Control Pattern

People display control patterns when they try to alter the perception of others, including how others think and feel. They will give unsolicited advice and attempt to make others seem helpless. If not allowed to help, they will develop feelings of resentment.

(Patterns and Characteristics of Codependence, Co-Dependents Anonymous, Inc., www.CoDA.org)

Call Visiting Angels Colorado Springs to learn about our caregivers and how we can help you and your loved one avoid codependency.