Assisted Home Care in Springfield, VA

When Parents Don’t Want to Accept Care

At Visiting Angels^® Springfield, VA we know it’s not uncommon for aging parents to be resistant or even to refuse care. Our assisted home care in Springfield, VA would like to share some insight into this problem that will hopefully allow you to better understand why your parents are reacting this way and how to possibly get through to them.

Understanding Reluctance and How to Address It

It’s important to understand that your parents are reacting to some of the most understandable and universal feelings about aging. The fear of losing independence and control over their lives can lead to anxiety and even anger and lashing out. Here are some suggestions for effectively addressing your parents:

• Assess the situation thoroughly at first. Make a careful observation of their day-to-day life and be sure to note what they are doing well. Take note of their most important values so you can be empathetic in your approach.
• Speak carefully. Frame your proposal in a way that acknowledges their feelings and prioritizes their values. Instead of forbidding them to do something, offer to assist and make it into a way to spend time together.
• Stress the main goal. Make a point to stress that your goal is to help them maintain their independence, not take it away. You want them to continue living at home but in a way that is safe. Your concern is coming from a place of love, and they are still your parents and in control of their own lives.

About Our Assisted Home Care in Springfield, VA

Our caring and professional team at Visiting Angels Springfield, VA is locally owned and operated. As such, we are always ready to help, even on short notice or on weekends and holidays.

We are best known for our empathetic and warm-hearted caregivers who treat seniors with the dignity and respect they deserve. Our caregivers will assist with any needs you’ve identified but encourage your loved one to do as much as they safely can. 

You may be wondering what types of assistance we can provide. Everything is personalized to your needs but in general we help with things such as:

• Meal preparation
• Medication reminders
• Dignified personal care such as bathing and grooming
• Incontinence aid
• Mobility assistance
• Household chores like laundry, dishes, linen changes, and more
• Safe transportation and companionship to and from local destinations
• Errands
• And much more

Our Springfield, VA Area Assisted Home Care Service Area

We are extremely grateful to serve local seniors and their families throughout:

• Springfield, VA
• Annandale
• Burke
• Bailey's Crossroads
• Fairfax
• Falls Church
• West Springfield
• Fairfax Station
• And the surrounding community

To learn more about our Springfield, VA area assisted home care or to schedule a free, in-home consultation and assessment of your loved one’s needs, please reach out and call Visiting Angels Springfield VA today.